Why Fitness Isn’t Just for the Gym Bros

If you think fitness is just about looking good in the mirror, you’re missing the bigger picture. Health and fitness are about being ready for life—whether it’s playing with your kids, recovering from the ski trip, or proving to yourself that you’ve still got it. The world needs strong men. But strength alone isn’t enough. You need the endurance to keep going and the flexibility to prevent life’s little mishaps from turning into big problems.

Let’s break down the three pillars of fitness and how you can improve in each area.

Strength: Because the World Needs Strong Men

Why Strength Matters

Strength isn’t just about lifting heavy weights. It’s about lifting yourself—out of tough situations, off the ground, and into a better version of yourself. Strong men command respect, protect their families, and carry the weight of responsibility. Without strength, you’re at the mercy of the world.

It’s like Teddy Roosevelt always said, speak softly and carry a big stick. The best analogy would be a firefighter. I don’t care if a 100-pound girl can run a 4-minute mile. Can she throw an unconscious 200-pound man over her shoulder and carry him out of the building? Have the strength for life’s curveballs when it’s needed.

How to Build Strength

• Lift Heavy, Lift Smart: Compound movements like squats, deadlifts, and bench presses should be your foundation. Squat to press is my go-to. Otherwise, I sling the kettlebell around for 20 minutes in various movements and get a full-body workout. You don’t need to train like Arnold Schwarzenegger, train better than you did yesterday.
• Train for Real Life: Grip strength, core stability, and bodyweight exercises ensure you’re strong where it counts. Burpees suck but their one hell of a workout. Think of axe chopping, potato sack carrying, or picking your kids up to put a star on the tree.
• Consistency Over Ego: Progress slowly, avoid injury, and stay in the game for the long haul. You blow out a hamstring and you’ll be struggling to squat on the potty for a few weeks. Can’t make much progress that way. Focus on exercises you WILL do and CAN do. Someone else’s day 100 will look different than your day 1.

Flexibility: Because Life Doesn’t Care How Strong You Are

Why Flexibility Matters

Slip-and-fall accidents are one of the leading causes of injury and death among older men. If you think flexibility is just for yogis, think again. A stiff body is a fragile body. When you’re flexible, you’re durable. You move better, recover faster, and reduce your risk of injury.

How to Improve Flexibility

• Stretch Daily: Dynamic stretching before workouts and static stretching afterward keep muscles mobile. The last thing you want is to pull a calf muscle teaching your kid how to ride a bike. Get rid of the back pain with some lumber stretches. Work on hip mobility to keep things fluid. Movement is lubrication so keep at it no matter how bad you start.
• Mobility Drills: Foam rolling, resistance band work, and controlled movements enhance joint flexibility. Even when lifting, it’s the tension that gives you the workout. Studies show that flexion when our muscles are fully extended gives us the best results. In other words, it’s the bottom of the curl that gives you the gains, not the top.
• Yoga for Real Men: If it was good enough for ancient warriors, it’s good enough for you. Ancient armies stretched before battle. You need to stretch after sitting at your desk all day.

Endurance: Because Life Requires Stamina

Why Endurance Matters

Strength and flexibility mean nothing if you gas out halfway through an activity. Whether it’s keeping up with your kids, hiking that mountain, or just pulling yourself back onto a floating inner tube, endurance is what keeps you in the game.

How to Build Endurance

• Mix Up Cardio: Sprint intervals, long-distance runs, and cycling build different types of endurance. My favorite is to walk on the treadmill but crank up the incline for a good heart rate boost. Other times I’ll run a minute walk on the treadmill. Figure out your treadmill and mix it up so you don’t get bored.
• Train Functional Movements: Kettlebell swings, battle ropes, and sled pushes mimic real-life activities. Imagine training for the bobsled, what workouts would you do? Don’t focus on increasing your bicep size, go full body and get the same result. Unless you’re in a fitness expo, stick with the day job and find 30 minutes of functional movement a day.
• Never Stop Moving: Find an activity you enjoy—sports, martial arts, hiking—and make it a part of your routine. I work to hit the gym 5 days a week but life gets in the way like most humans. Find appointments on your calendar that you can stick to. Join that pickleball club, run club (90% of them walk anyway), or get an active club like “Dog Dads of Denver”.

Real Talk: A Story of Strength, Flexibility, and Endurance in Action

John was your typical weekend warrior. Working an office job sitting 8 hours a day, plus an hour commute, just to sit on the couch and watch TV when he got home. He hit the gym occasionally but never regularly. He ignored flexibility and endurance training which you can guess what happened. One winter morning, he slipped on ice, pulling his back and leaving him sidelined for weeks. Worst part? It was a week before a buddy trip to the beach. Instead of throwing the pigskin, he laid on the beach like a stuck pig. That’s when he realized lifting weights wasn’t enough—he needed balance. He added stretching and endurance workouts. Now you can catch him at the local ski lodge most weekends keeping his hips & knees flexible for life’s mishaps.

FAQs About Fitness and Health

Q: How often should I train each pillar? Strength (3-4x per week), flexibility (daily), endurance (3-5x per week depending on intensity).

Q: Do I need to join a gym? No. Bodyweight exercises, resistance bands, and outdoor activities can help you train effectively. Find something you enjoy and will stick with both in good and bad weather.

Q: What if I’m not flexible? No one started as a master. Troy Aikman had to learn to throw a football, Christopher Nolan had to learn how to produce movies, and mike Tyson had to learn how to bite off an ear. Start with what you can do. Learn as you go. Your only competition was what you did yesterday.

The Challenge: Are You Balanced?

Which of the three pillars are you neglecting? Strength? Flexibility? Endurance? Take an honest look and make a change today.

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